The concept of looking for a job applies to everything we want, one of which is when we are looking for a partner. We can’t just walk straight into her life. There is a process that must be followed, and of course, texting girls in the best ways we know. Many people then fail because they don’t prepare anything during this stage. They surrender at the wrong time by saying, ‘whatever happens, happen’ or ‘go with the flow’ sounds poetic but somewhat illogical. She is a person we consider special, which is why we want to approach her. So, it’s only natural that we proceed for it. But there is a bad and good way of approaching a girl.
To make sure that your way is the good way you need to understanding boundaries. The limits are quite clear, you have not become anyone for her. Maybes he has become a special person for you but does not apply otherwise. At this time, this has not yet been applied. You’re just a stranger trying. So, don’t expect her to think of you as special as she is special to you. Many people fail at this stage because of this. They think that they are special enough that there are limits that they have crossed. Later, the process stopped in the middle of the road, they were confused and disappointed. Even though it’s only natural for her to stay away from you. If you want a smooth process, immediately understand the boundaries. It could be that you crossed the line unintentionally because you didn’t try to understand the boundaries. Simply put, you are not yet one in ‘us’. You are still two people, you and her.
The plan is important, proceeding without a plan is the root of the disaster, especially since you already have a clear goal, a date with her. We assume she does not have that goal. Therefore, we must have a plan. Take a little time to find out, especially because things like this are not taught in school and college. Don’t hesitate, there’s nothing wrong with getting to know your potential girlfriend. Especially now the internet era where you can get lots of material easily.